Feb
11
2015
A listener request for advice on bondage gear that doesn't cost a fortune led us on a winding road that ended with a new sponsor! This episode begins with a discussion of "pervertables" that can be found in various...
Nov
24
2013
Listener mail topics include a question about fetishizing the scenario of a sexually experienced woman teaching an inexperienced guy how to fuck, exploring the psychology of taking constructive criticism as a submissive, books for new dominants who want to...
Apr
01
2012
As discussed in Episode 45, your homework this time around is to fill out a BDSM Checklist to show yourself where your kinky desires do or don't lie. This can be a lot of fun if you do it...
Mar
21
2012
Listener questions from a swing-curious couple who had a chat with prospective playmates go sideways when boundaries were ignored, a woman with an issue that pops up at the brink of orgasm, a woman who wants to know what...
Jan
18
2012
As we return from hiatus we reply to a listener's questions about her mental conflict between her feminist ideals and the concept of sexual submission.
We also announce the digital re-release of the collected works of Tree of Shadows, J.V.'s...
Oct
25
2011
Part 2 of our guide to sexual dominance focuses on tips and tricks for introducing BDSM to your play time without doing anything intimidating or obnoxious. This episode covers how a dominant can establish and enhance their power through...
Oct
25
2011
Your homework for episode 40, should you choose to accept it, is to do something kinky that you've never done before, or that you've never done with your current playmate. We're not encouraging any outright freakishness, but we'd like...
Sep
13
2011
The first installment of our guide on how to be a sexual dominant, the philosophy of dominance, dom space and why it's awesome, understanding what power the dominant does and doesn't have, discipline vs. punishment, and a bunch of...
Jul
17
2011
Listener questions and comments on topics including terrible sex advice, accidental anal, the challenges of a small woman taking a big cock in the ass, health benefits of menstrual sex and easy ways to deal with the mess, BDSM...
May
17
2011
Topics include getting laid as a new mom when dad isn't being terribly helpful, how to comfortably deal with a big dick in the mouth (and in the back door with hemorrhoids as a complication), a discussion on the...
Apr
21
2011
Topics include bisexuality, online dating, introducing a vanilla husband to sexual dominance, re-stoking the sexual fires of a relationship and dealing with potential new playmates who expect a full blown Dominatrix as soon as a woman mentions kink.
Show Links:
Kink-positive...
Jan
24
2011
A wrap up on the most basic concepts of BDSM including group play, fetish clubs, negotiating scenes and the meaning of the word "fetish," as well as a couple kink related listener mail items.
Show Links:
Fetlife.com
J.V. on Fetlife
Shara on Fetlife
Direct...
Jan
09
2011
A beginner's guide to understanding BDSM. This jumbo sized episode covers the definitions of: the acronym "BDSM", Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism & Masochism as well as Sadomasochism. We also talk about soft limits, hard limits, the...
Nov
07
2010
Episode 9 | Advice Line: Curing Prostatitis, Masturbation Problems, Introducing Kink To Your Bedroom
Listener comments and questions covering another health benefit resulting from guys burping the worm on a regular basis, advice for a girl who can only climax with a man and can't get herself off, a guy coping with a...
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