Episode 32 | Advice Line: How To Ride A Cock, Making Your Own Bondage Gear, Dealing With Male Sexual Stamina Issues
This listener mail episode includes questions on how to get good at riding a cock like a cowgirl, tips on making your own bondage gear and fetish wear on the cheap, and dealing with the psychological fallout of male stamina issues.
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In addition to the great Items JV and Shara presented I need to add that a trip to your health provider or the urologist will insure insure there is not physical issue. There are a couple of medications that assist in delaying ejaculation as a side effect of the medication but they work well.
Do not bother with asking for prescription for any of the “get a boner” drugs. They help it get up but not stay up.
A sex counselor (or sexologist) will take that performance pressure off
And finally it is now possible to completely take the pressure and anxiety off your mind. The device sold by the folks at http://www.erektorforlife.com/ is designed for those who cannot get an erection HOWEVER when sized properly the crown ring can keep the head full regardless of the shaft status. This knowledge helps his know he cannot fail and allows her to get fully satisfied.
Shara,
Am listening to “riding cowboy” right now.
You mentioned the body image and riding cowboy. Introducing a different perspective.
I am hesitant to ride on top due to the control. I feel like the “driver” when I would rather be driven if that makes sense? I like showing the bouncing breasts and even in my “heavier” physical status, I like kind of making a show of it. I am just hyper critical if I’m doing enough, providing enough pleasure “getting the angles”? A lot of pressure.
There was a “Golden Girls” episode (yes I’m going there) where Blanche talked about how much better she looked on her back, that the wrinkles or something like that we’re terrible from above… Blanche has taught me a lot and think it’s a good thing to mention… Lot’s of inspiration from lots of places.
Just a couple of cents to add to the pot… ty
Aluminumdaisy,
First, LOVE the name :-). Second, I know exactly what you mean. I too would rather be driven but I too like to show the bouncing breasts and yet am critical if I’m doing enough and providing enough pleasure. I’ll have to go back and watch the Golden Girls episode. You know, thinking about it….that name “Golden Girls” could have a totally different meaning 🙂
Thank you for sharing!
I love to be riden. I like to watch the boobs bouncing. Luckily for me both my partners like to be on top so we all enjoy it. You can still be driven if you are on top; you just need to lean forward and the guy bends his legs so that his feat are on the bed (or whatever surface you are fucking on) and he can thrust from below.