Episode 44 | Advice Line: Swinging Etiquette, Squirting, Kinky Punishment Play
Listener questions from a swing-curious couple who had a chat with prospective playmates go sideways when boundaries were ignored, a woman with an issue that pops up at the brink of orgasm, a woman who wants to know what guys think of squirting, and a woman wondering how to react when her dom-curious boyfriend says he wants to punish her but she hasn’t done anything wrong.
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Uh, I’m only getting 1:45 worth of show on the iTunes feed and here.
I exported the intro instead of the whole episode. Corrected it about 5 min. later, but for some reason the updated version never went out through the feed. Correct version with a slightly different file name is now live and working fine. Sorry for the hassle.
Hi! Kilgore here. I just listened to this episode today and nearly lost is when I heard you guys reading my question. I have been listening for about 5 month, starting from the beginning and catching up pretty quickly. I have recommend that my guy listen to them too, but I don’t think he has started.
He is a pretty experienced heavy dominate from what I have been able to gleam from our conversations on the subject. I am still pretty shy about talking about this sort of thing with him, and he never seems to bring it up on his own, so I haven’t actually gotten around to bringing this specific topic up again.
I was brave enough to ask him a more direct question about what sort of things he liked, but he kind of gave me a vague answer of “I am a simple man of simple taste.” This was kind of annoying as I have been with simple men with simple tastes, and he is most definitely a more complex animal.
We have a had the talk about soft and hard boundaries, and most of our play is light, so at least for right now I feel very comfortable. If I had to guess why he isn’t being more direct about what he really likes, I would say it is because he doesn’t want to scare me away. I feel very lucky to have found a strong dominate that is willing to take it slow, and I am very eager to see what else we will get into in the future.
Just discovered your podcast on iTunes and
Am loving it!! Thanks for the chat about squirting, my hubby of 12 years and i just discovered my wonderful talent And are fully enjoying it! Since he has been my only partner, I was glad to hear that this is enjoyable for lots of men. I certainly love this, but am looking for other ways to please him and rerurn the favor, but he won’t share any ideas with me. Any suggestions of where to start?
Thanks, wet and thankful
We’ll talk about this on episode 49 🙂
I have been alone for 10 years since my husband left me. It’s complicated, and has to do with roommates and my kids. My youngest will be a senior and then off to college next year, and I will feel more free to no longer be alone.
I have dreamed about bdsm, as a submissive, my entire life. I only had one orgasm in 22 years, with my vanilla ex, except the ones I have myself, and feel I have some catching up to do! Lol…. But I am 52,