Episode 27 | Group Sex Basics: Threesomes, Swinging, Polyamory, Orgies, Bi-Curiosity, Limits And Safe Words
Some of the basic concepts and philosophies of group sex as well as some of the pitfalls of threesomes and couples playing together, including how bi-curiosity can come into play and how you can encourage a curious playmate without pushing too hard. This episode begins an arc of topics on group play, swinging, polyamory and other flavors of non-monogamy.
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Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-027-Group-Sex-Basics.mp3
Hi J.V.,
Enjoyed the episode. Can’t agree with you more about just going along for the ride if a girlfriend says she’s bi-curious. Yes when you first hear it you’ll be thinking “We should have a threesome with another girl right away!” but that will just turn your girlfriend off the whole thing. Luckily I was smart enough to play it cool and go for the long game when Kity told me she was bi-curious. It took a long time but we focused on her needs and it was totally worth it.
I think not pushing with things is the best way to go about sex in general. If your partner is curious about trying anal, BDSM, or anything else they haven’t tried before and you immediately try to get them to go all the way with it you’ll probably scare them off of that activity. For example if they tell you that they want to try anal and then you talk them into full anal sex right away you’ll probably hurt them and they will never want to do that again. You have to start out slow like with a well lubed finger.
Back onto the topic of group sex I just want to say that while it is great it isn’t worth destroying a relationship over so don’t try to force your partner into it. When your partner is ready and you find a playmate the rewards are worth the wait. There are just some things that require more than one partner like the double blowjob you mentioned.