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In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara, Tristan Taormino and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 1 of 2
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Jun
15
2019
After a long hiatus induced by JV almost dying last year and taking months to recover, we're podcasting again! We've missed you, sexy friends!
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Feb
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2018
This year's Desire Resort takeover brought a new and improved Dungeon Night, and a couple dozen perverts decided to join our live audience recording the next day...where we were able to do an absinthe tasting thanks to the generosity...
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29
2017
This year's Desire Resort takeover brought a new and improved Dungeon Night, and a couple dozen perverts decided to join our live audience recording the next day...where we were able to do an absinthe tasting thanks to the generosity...
Oct
02
2017
Part 2 of our post-fair discussion. In the conclusion we talk more about our Saturday night play party (including Sexxypixie signing Shara's ass), vibrators with rolling unlock codes, and everyone gets together to give Gabriella her birthday spankings.
Thanks to...
Oct
01
2017
After Folsom Street Fair, we sat down with our friends to talk about the sights and scenes of the weekend.
We talk more about Twisted Windows, especially Saki & Mayu's intense shibari performance, though the word "shibari" alone fails entirely to do...
Sep
29
2017
While we were in San Francisco for Folsom Street Fair, Shara and the other submissives recorded their own episode on Saturday evening while the doms were cooking dinner and otherwise entertaining themselves.
They spend a good bit of time unpacking...
Sep
04
2017
Podcaster, Sex educator and prolific pornographer Tristan Taormino, who also happens to be our guest co-host for our upcoming Desire Resort takeover in November, joins us to talk about kinky sex and how she likes it.
This episode was originally...
Jul
09
2017
We talk about some of the highlights of our sexy times in San Francisco, including an excellent evening spent at an erotic dinner hosted by Our Gourmet Life Chef Chris Hubbard
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Jun
08
2017
While in San Francisco, we sat down with Midori to talk about using better communication to make hot play happen and get more out of it.
Topics include turning "no" into something positive and learning to share your desires in a way...
Apr
19
2017
We've been doing some traveling this year, and part of that has been visiting new and interesting fetish clubs. In this episode we talk about our time at:
Our sexy friend Cooper S Beckett from Life on the Swingset joins...
Apr
03
2017
We've been doing some traveling this year, and part of that has been visiting new and interesting fetish clubs. In this episode we talk about our time at:
Galleria Domain 2 in Chicago
Choice Social Club in Rhode Island
We were also...
Mar
17
2017
In this supersize episode, Shara and I join our friends from Life on the Swingset to reminisce about our Desire Resort takeover back in November. This is also a special Swingset episode, as it marks the show's seventh anniversary!
The...
Mar
08
2017
During our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes the conclusion of that interview, in which we talk about ForteFemme, Midori's...
Mar
02
2017
During our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes most of that interview (more to come next week).
We talk...
Feb
28
2017
Our long-time medical advisor finally joins us on the show to continue a discussion about PTSD & BDSM play that began a few episodes ago with a listener question.
Sadly, due to some technical issues, we had to use the...
Feb
22
2017
After a crazy holiday season, we ring in the new year with a new studio setup, and we hope you love the new sound as much as we do. Please let us know what you think!
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Nov
20
2016
On November 9th, the disco at Desire Resort became a dungeon for the first time and it was an amazing night. Shara and I could never have pulled it off without the support and assistance of several other kinky...
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23
2016
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23
2016
A submissive from Down Under asks questions about navigating the realm of BDSM when you have PTSD from sexual and physical abuse, including looking for a dominant online.
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Oct
08
2016
A listener question about orgasms on command inspired an impromptu recording in paradise, which later inspired (and is included in) this episode. Honestly, it was a blast to both record and edit this one.
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Oct
06
2016
Jim from Char Travel joins us for this special episode about the upcoming (nearly 100% booked!) Desire Resort takeover in November
Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you...
Oct
06
2016
For our first episode in a while we talk a bit about Shara's fondness for erotic asphyxiation, as well as a listener question about striking out at swing clubs that Ginger and Prof were kind enough to answer with...
Nov
23
2015
This year for Swingset Takes Desire we hosted a bunch of kinky events, and a great time was had by all. This discussion-group style episode was recorded live on our last full day at the resort, full of reminiscence...
Sep
01
2015
Ginger & The Prof join us again to pitch in discussing some kinky listener mail topics, including getting the confidence up to attend your first munch, dealing with sexual monotony when your kinky play becomes so predictable it feels...
Jun
06
2015
Ginger & The Prof from Life on the Swingset (and their own upcoming podcast Intellectual Foreplay--we can't wait!) join us to reminisce about our trip to Desire in April...and plot what sorts of trouble we can cause on our upcoming...
May
17
2015
A listener asks for advice on recovering from a rape she suffered three years ago. We interview two other sexual abuse/assault survivors who share their experiences with recovery.
Interview Guests:
Dawn Serra is a sex an intimacy coach who has personal...
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In the continuing saga of unintended consequences at the hand of Indiana's new (and recently revised) Religious Freedom Restoration Act (sic, /gag), this is one of my favorite stories so far.
The Daily Beast's David Freedlander spoke with Dusty Dionne,...
Apr
05
2015
A 58-year-old shepherd in San Jose de Blacare (Eastern Argentina) was found dead next to a scarecrow he'd apparently been fucking, which was wearing lipstick, a long wig, and a strap-on cock.
A spokesman for the prosecutor said: "It was...
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01
2015
This episode was recorded at CatalystCon in front of a live studio audience. We have a great conversation with David Mandell, creator of the Private Gym Pelvic Muscle Exercise System For Men, on this revolutionary (and FDA registered) system for improving...
Feb
11
2015
A listener request for advice on bondage gear that doesn't cost a fortune led us on a winding road that ended with a new sponsor! This episode begins with a discussion of "pervertables" that can be found in various...
Jan
14
2015
Dee Dennis joins us to talk about CatalystCon, a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. Follow @DeeDennis and @CatalystCon on Twitter
Enter code "DARKAGE" at registration for 10 bucks off!
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Jan
06
2015
Cooper Beckett joins us to talk about his new book, My Life On The Swingset, which chronicles the ups, downs and sideways shimmies of his first six years practicing ethical non-monogamy, in a way that really brings the reader...
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This is our first experimental run at a "Sex News" format. If we work out the kinks (giggity), it may become either something we do every couple episodes or even a spin-off show.
See the bottom of the post for...
Dec
20
2014
A friend of ours from the Desire trip recently wrote a post on asymmetrical swinging over at Life on the Swingset. That post inspired Shara and I to unpack some of our experiences from Desire and during that process...
Dec
14
2014
That's right, Shara and I loved our trip to desire resort so much that we had them set aside a block of rooms so we can take you back with us!
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Topics include a younger guy with concerns about being attracted to other guys, a woman wondering how to work up the courage to go to a kinky munch, and a cowboy getting kicked out of bed for an odor...
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A couple weeks ago, Shara and I returned from a week spent in paradise with a bunch of truly exceptional people. We joined the Life on the Swingset crew for Swingset Takes Desire, 2014, and it may have been...
Nov
26
2014
This episode is one of our favorites to date, mostly because it was SO much fun to record. JV and Shara are joined by Cooper, Miko and Prof from Life on the Swingset, as well as a couple dozen...
Nov
23
2014
A listener asks for advice on dealing with a relationship that's great in almost every respect, except that it's never taken off sexually.
This was originally recorded to be episode 63, but never got published due to technical issues which...
Nov
20
2014
Shara and I just spent a week in paradise at Swingset Takes Desire 2014, and this episode is our stream-of-consciousness wrap up of the trip and return to regular podcasting...for realsies this time.
Please take a few moments to fill...
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(CNN) - Startups are transforming into multi-billion companies. And the staffs are overwhelmingly male. Sex workers tell CNNMoney they have a growing clientele who have plenty of excess cash.
Two recent events have raised concerns.
The arrest this week of an...
Jul
13
2014
(Newser) – Women who eat one to two apples a day experience a better sexual quality of life than women classified as having "no regular apple consumption," according to a new study in the Archives of Gynecology and Obstetrics....
Jul
13
2014
Merck Pharmaceuticals spent over $100 million advertising finasteride (aka Propecia) to aging, self-conscious men. The pattern of disturbing side-effects is profound enough to become it's own condition, "post-finasteride syndrome" (PFS), along with hundreds of lawsuits.
Symptoms identified in the Journal...
Jun
29
2014
In an effort to better support the show and attract high quality advertisers who are relevant to our audience, we'd like to ask everyone to take a moment to fill out a brief demographic survey.
While the survey does ask...
Jun
29
2014
A guy with stage 4 cancer needs to know if his submissive will be swallowing his chemotherapy drugs along with his jizz (see link below), advice on toning down your dominant side when it's too much for your partner,...
Jun
11
2014
We join our friends from the Swingset for the first time in far too long! Topics of conversation include advice on polyamory, eating creampies, pegging, and whatever else wandered through our minds.
This episode is available as both episode 61...
May
28
2014
We finally talk about our Vegas wrap up, as well as talking about some fun ways to break sexual monotony. New interviews are coming soon on our show, and we'll be recording with our friends on the swingset very...
Jan
12
2014
A concerned boyfriend is looking for tips to help his girl stand up to her controlling parents, a submissive needs help getting comfortable with talking dirty, and another submissive wants to bring sexy back to her marriage by bringing...
Dec
22
2013
Topics include a listener's struggle with his gynophagia (aka Cannibalism Fetish), a blind couple asking for detailed verbal instructions for doing Kegel exercises, and a woman on seizure meds who might be incapable of feeling pleasure from her orgasms...
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I've never seen it served this way, but that looks delicious! Just take your time and everything will work itself out.
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Listener mail topics include a question about fetishizing the scenario of a sexually experienced woman teaching an inexperienced guy how to fuck, exploring the psychology of taking constructive criticism as a submissive, books for new dominants who want to...
Nov
10
2013
Listener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications that may be looking for models, JV's new project to test...
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Indeed, we're not dead and it's great to be back to podcasting. Many thanks to those who emailed and kept in touch while we were more or less MIA, we're looking forward to seeing how much of the audience...
Dec
03
2012
This time we discuss a listener question from a lesbian who's been pretty thoroughly cheated on by her long-time partner, which leads into a broader discussion of adultery and why cheating sucks on so many levels.
All the sex-positive awesomeness...
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Topics include advice for a younger guy on how to replace masturbation with real women, advice for a couple who's almost certain their friends want to swing with them but aren't sure how to break the ice without being...
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From the filthy minds of our friends over at SMBC Comics :)
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Two listener questions from women about getting another girl in bed for a threesome, including topics such as making an approach or opening the door, how to tell if another woman is into you, and the option of using...
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