While in San Francisco, we sat down with Midori to talk about using better communication to make hot play happen and get more out of it. Topics include turning "no" into something positive and learning to share your desires in a way...

This episode was recorded at CatalystCon in front of a live studio audience. We have a great conversation with David Mandell, creator of the Private Gym Pelvic Muscle Exercise System For Men, on this revolutionary (and FDA registered) system for improving...

Topics for this show are bad blowjobs (and how a diligent cocksucker can avoid giving one), as well as the plight of a woman who's not quite sure she's ever had an orgasm. Shara has a great time describing...

We talk in-depth about the clitoris, including some great info revealed by recent research. Show Links: After Dinner Party: A Two-Pronged, Art Centered Clitoris Education Project Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any...

Part 2 of our guide to sexual dominance focuses on tips and tricks for introducing BDSM to your play time without doing anything intimidating or obnoxious. This episode covers how a dominant can establish and enhance their power through...

The first installment of our guide on how to be a sexual dominant, the philosophy of dominance, dom space and why it's awesome, understanding what power the dominant does and doesn't have, discipline vs. punishment, and a bunch of...

Listener questions and comments on topics including terrible sex advice, accidental anal, the challenges of a small woman taking a big cock in the ass, health benefits of menstrual sex and easy ways to deal with the mess, BDSM...

Understanding the ass as a sex object, how to play without causing pain or injury, why guys want to fuck women in the ass in the first place, ass-to-pussy and ass-to-mouth as they relate to disease, use of condoms...

The short answer is: "It's supposed to smell like pussy." This is a great sex-positive article written by a gynecologist regarding female attitudes toward the smell of their love canals, and how language usage can make women with...

We're joined once again by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset for a lively discussion on ethical non-monogamy that covers topics including BDSM in the swing community, single swingers and the different challenges faced by men and...

For this assignment, should you choose to accept it, look over this excellent list of ten habits of highly sexual people.  Pick one thing on this list that you want to be better about, and focus on it for...

This time we're joined by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset to have a fun conversation about the joys ethical non-monogamy.  In fact, we were having so much fun that we didn't get to half the topics...

Some of the basic concepts and philosophies of group sex as well as some of the pitfalls of threesomes and couples playing together, including how bi-curiosity can come into play and how you can encourage a curious playmate without...

A story about a little old lady chasing a public masturbator with a giant dildo, a woman contemplating celibacy due to sexual disappointments, clitoral numbness from frequent use of vibrators, and a guy looking for a middle ground on...

A discussion of homophobia, social issues and myths surrounding homosexuality and bisexuality, in preparation for some fun topics like swinging, group sex and poly. Show Links: Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-024-HomophoBiSexuality.mp3

A horny mom seeks help sorting through her recently discovered sex overdrive, advice for women looking to help keep their guys from needlessly obsessing about the size of their tools and a Dom looking for help unlocking the kinky...

Tips on sex in public and in private that does NOT involve a bed or a bedroom, including sex in and on cars, in the water and whatever horizontal surfaces you might have in your home. Show Links: Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-022-Sex-On-Location.mp3

From the Huffington Post: Sexting: Schools, Legislators Debate Punishments For Offenders: The popularity of sexting has sent parents, school officials and legislators scrambling to figure out how to address the issue. ...The New York Department of Education has also moved...

A wrap up on the most basic concepts of BDSM including group play, fetish clubs, negotiating scenes and the meaning of the word "fetish," as well as a couple kink related listener mail items. Show Links: Fetlife.com J.V. on Fetlife Shara on Fetlife Direct...

Topics include why guys like blowing loads all over women, laser hair removal for balls and pussies, how to spot and avoid using unsafe sex toys that can leech chemicals and cause problems, being constantly accused of cheating when...

A beginner's guide to understanding BDSM. This jumbo sized episode covers the definitions of: the acronym "BDSM", Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism & Masochism as well as Sadomasochism. We also talk about soft limits, hard limits, the...

The art of eating at the Y is examined from several angles with a bunch of, tricks and ideas for newbies and connoisseurs. Included are the anatomy of a pussy (where you find the clit and how to make...

A thorough explanation of why guys love getting head so much, why no one has an excuse not to go down, and lots of tips on how to be a better cocksucker. Includes The myth that it's demeaning to...

The history and variety of sex toys for both men and women is examined, along with methods for bringing toys into your playtime if you haven't in the past. Sexual-Dark-Age-008-Sex-Toys-Rock.mp3

This time around I go through all the ins, outs, ups and downs of masturbation for both guys and girls, including highlights of the many physical and psychological benefits of regularly scheduled orgasms either with a playmate or flying...

This episode examines shame as it pollutes modern sexuality, primarily in relation to the efforts of the Religion Industrial Complex.  Fair warning, this is an extremely critical look at the institution of religion that some listeners have described as...

Episode 4 covers various ins and outs of male stamina, starting with dispelling myths and understanding realistic expectations; then moving on to methods that can be used by both men and women to improve performance and longevity. Sexual-Dark-Age-004-Love-Her-Long-Time.mp3 Podcast Feed

This episode covers a range of topics closely tied to the female orgasm; starting with why fake orgasms are the worst idea anyone has ever had...EVER...and continuing through the communication issues that lead to faking in the first place...

A lot of men and women spend a lot of time obsessing about the size of certain key parts of their anatomies. This episode debunks a lot of common misconceptions about how much size matters in sex and sexual...

Welcome to the inaugural episode of Ending the Sexual Dark Age, a lighthearted yet serious podcast dedicated to the unvarnished truth about sex in the modern world. We're educated from an early age about everything we'll need to know...