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I thought this would be a perfect choice for my first sexy photo post. More to come!
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Hemant Mehta over at patheos.com did a spectacular job of distilling the meat behind the Chik-Fil-A controversy in a way that bears re-posting. Every Christian who claims they don't have any problem with gays (but still opposes marriage equality)...
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So, a teenage girl gets raped after drinking too much at a party. Her rapists get wrist slaps in court. She ends up charged with contempt for violating the (female) judge's order not to speak publicly about her violation...
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Shara gets a full round of birthday spankings to start the show, then we talk a little more about painful boners (continued from episode 46), a listener's favorite dildo that also causes burning pain, and addressing self-confidence issues to...
Jul
23
2012
Listener questions about working in the adult industry, how to deal when one half of your favorite couple to swing with turns out to be a cheater, what to do about a painful boner and how to become a...
Apr
01
2012
Kink-oriented listener questions on topics including collars in BDSM play and relationships, where to find BDSM checklists and how to get the most out of them, how a submissive can be assertive about getting kinky play without acting dominant,...
Apr
01
2012
As discussed in Episode 45, your homework this time around is to fill out a BDSM Checklist to show yourself where your kinky desires do or don't lie. This can be a lot of fun if you do it...
Mar
21
2012
Listener questions from a swing-curious couple who had a chat with prospective playmates go sideways when boundaries were ignored, a woman with an issue that pops up at the brink of orgasm, a woman who wants to know what...
Feb
23
2012
We talk in-depth about the clitoris, including some great info revealed by recent research.
Show Links:
After Dinner Party: A Two-Pronged, Art Centered Clitoris Education Project
Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any...
Jan
21
2012
Added a media player to the site with six tracks from Tree of Shadows. Enjoy :)
Jan
18
2012
As we return from hiatus we reply to a listener's questions about her mental conflict between her feminist ideals and the concept of sexual submission.
We also announce the digital re-release of the collected works of Tree of Shadows, J.V.'s...
Nov
16
2011
Listener questions including a wife who feels guilty about how easily and often she can come with a new toy, getting back on track after a really bad sexual performance, men being intimidated by sexually confident, indpendent women and...
Nov
16
2011
Your homework for episode 41, should you choose to accept it, is to tell us a your funniest/scariest/weirdest holiday sex story, either by email/facebook/etc. or by posting a comment in this thread. We'll read the best of them on...
Nov
16
2011
As I announced on Episode 41, to celebrate the release of my first novel we're doing a special contest for podcast listeners. Lady of the Drake is an ebook, but I'm doing a limited run of 50 signed/numbered paperbacks....
Oct
26
2011
It's been a while coming, but my first novel was just published today. If you like the idea of some smokin' hot erotic fantasy from the same filthy mind that brings you the podcast, get your copy now!
As of...
Oct
25
2011
Part 2 of our guide to sexual dominance focuses on tips and tricks for introducing BDSM to your play time without doing anything intimidating or obnoxious. This episode covers how a dominant can establish and enhance their power through...
Oct
25
2011
Your homework for episode 40, should you choose to accept it, is to do something kinky that you've never done before, or that you've never done with your current playmate. We're not encouraging any outright freakishness, but we'd like...
Oct
02
2011
As discussed in Episode 39, we're announcing a t-shirt contest for bitching about the opposite sex and being funny about it. We hope this will be a way to have some fun while we ramp up to talking about...
Oct
02
2011
Topics include Vaginism / Vaginismus and how to discuss the issue at the beginning of a relationship, a woman who loves her husband and family but is struggling with non-monogamous desires and questions from two listeners on bi-curiosity and...
Sep
13
2011
The first installment of our guide on how to be a sexual dominant, the philosophy of dominance, dom space and why it's awesome, understanding what power the dominant does and doesn't have, discipline vs. punishment, and a bunch of...
Aug
23
2011
A STUDY into the evolutionary benefits of polygamy among mammals has been recognised as the best published article among scientific fields, in a recent announcement at the UWA (University of Western Austrailia).
Dr. Renee Firman, of the UWA Centre for...
Aug
22
2011
Listener questions and comments on erectile dysfunction directly related to condoms, Christians doing their best to be sex-positive, and the "ex-gay" movement (which produces Shara's first rant on the show).
Shara and I also talk about some upcoming audio erotica...
Aug
21
2011
This post is now part of Shara's Pornoglyph T-Shirt Sweepstakes, click for the post explaining the contest.
For this episode's homework, should you choose to accept it, I'd like you to help me prep for some upcoming relationship-oriented episodes about...
Aug
07
2011
An Indian scientist named Sujoy Guha is perfecting a form of birth control that, mark my words, will change our relationship with sexuality for the better.
Since the first Pharoahs wrapped their cocks with lamb skin, the condom has been...
Aug
07
2011
Miss Pole Dance 2011 champion, Jess Norris, who runs the classes, insisted they were a "fantastic" way for kids to keep fit.
She said: "There is nothing sexual about the classes.
"What I teach is pole fitness, nothing else. There...
Aug
05
2011
I was recently reminded that it's been a while since I released any pornoglyphs, so here's the first of a few new ones. I give you the pornoglyph for 'swinging.' Let me know what you think :)
Aug
03
2011
NOTE: This episode has been updated, with Shara performing the female dialogue :)
A quick, kinky tale of a farmgirl who gets more than she bargained for when she throws herself at the local blacksmith. This story is a prequel...
Jul
27
2011
Cover art for my novel, which is coming a little later this year from Ravenous Romance. I'm really happy with how the cover and the book turned out, and I can't wait to share some of it with you...
Jul
17
2011
I honestly thought bestiality was already illegal pretty much everywhere, but it seems Florida's been having real problems lately.
I may have shared a story from our local news back when I was a teenager, when a guy...
Jul
17
2011
Listener questions and comments on topics including terrible sex advice, accidental anal, the challenges of a small woman taking a big cock in the ass, health benefits of menstrual sex and easy ways to deal with the mess, BDSM...
Jul
13
2011
This is a rather interesting article regarding a couple recent studies done in Africa, on a couple medications designed to prevent the spread of HIV. I think this is encouraging stuff. Not that we all want to take...
Jul
09
2011
From the "you might not believe this shit" file, until a couple days ago in Louisiana, giving a blowjob or letting someone fuck you in the ass could land you in prison and put you on the sex offender...
Jul
07
2011
I really, really wish this was a satirical post...or even that I could find something funny about it. I couldn't. Once in a while the Sexual Dark Age comes up with a way to horrify even me....
Jul
07
2011
From Reuters: In a split 2-1 decision, the 2nd U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals found that nonprofit groups could not be forced to adopt a policy opposing prostitution in order to receive funding from a 2003 spending bill passed...
Jun
29
2011
Episode 34 | Anal Sex Guide: Why Guys Want It, Anal Porn, Anal Health and Safety, Ass Play With Toys
Understanding the ass as a sex object, how to play without causing pain or injury, why guys want to fuck women in the ass in the first place, ass-to-pussy and ass-to-mouth as they relate to disease, use of condoms...
Jun
23
2011
This quickie bonus episode represents a great collaboration between Ending the Sexual Dark Age and Life on the Swingset. The Swingset pitches in to answer a question from an experienced swinging guy who's concerned about coming out to the...
Jun
18
2011
UPDATE: They made pretty quick work of deleting my comment (below) along with several others that didn't tow the line. I thought I was actually pretty polite, and so were the other comments that got deleted. ...
Jun
15
2011
This listener mail episode includes questions on how to get good at riding a cock like a cowgirl, tips on making your own bondage gear and fetish wear on the cheap, and dealing with the psychological fallout of male...
Jun
06
2011
The short answer is: "It's supposed to smell like pussy." This is a great sex-positive article written by a gynecologist regarding female attitudes toward the smell of their love canals, and how language usage can make women with...
May
31
2011
We're joined once again by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset for a lively discussion on ethical non-monogamy that covers topics including BDSM in the swing community, single swingers and the different challenges faced by men and...
May
24
2011
We have another fuckwad politician blowing out candles in the sexual dark age. How can we still be going backwards?
Re-posted from kevinism.com.
GOP Tennessee Gov. Bill Haslam today signed the bill overturning Nashville’s non-discrimination ordinance. The bill also effectively outlaws...
May
23
2011
Shara and I are thrilled to announce that this afternoon Ending The Sexual Dark Age passed the six-figure milestone, with over 100,000 downloads since the show was launched last fall. We want to take a minute to say...
May
20
2011
I'm thrilled to announce that I've just signed three publishing contracts with Ravenous Romance for some recent and current work.
My novel LADY OF THE DRAKE will be released later this year, and my short stories TRYST OF...
May
20
2011
I just read an interesting article over at Eden Cafe about the Wiccan Rede and BDSM. It's always seemed blatantly obvious that BDSM falls well within the scope of "An it harm none, do what thou will," so...
May
20
2011
Many thanks to the Connecticut House of Representatives for lighting a candle in the Sexual Dark Age yesterday when they approved a bill making discrimination on the basis of "gender identity or expression" a jail-able offense. Hopefully the...
May
17
2011
Topics include getting laid as a new mom when dad isn't being terribly helpful, how to comfortably deal with a big dick in the mouth (and in the back door with hemorrhoids as a complication), a discussion on the...
May
15
2011
This was written in response to a listener's question regarding anal sex involving her husband's over-achieving girth, considering that she suffers from external hemorrhoids. This is discussed in Episdode 30, Listener Mail Vol. 10.
From the desk of our medical...
May
10
2011
A condom that helps men maintain erections is being developed by a British biotech company and if regulators approve it in Europe, the sexual device could pop up in the United States.
A gel inside the prophylactic increases...
May
06
2011
The legal coordinator for Atheists of Florida, Ellenbeth Wachs, has been arrested for the second time this year. The first arrest warrant alleges that Wachs posed as a lawyer. The second alleges that she faked an orgasm.
From the "Truth...
May
05
2011
...When the scantily clad exotic dancer performed her party trick – shooting dildos at the guests from her private parts, best man Darwin architect Jure Skumavc, 31, found himself in the firing line. As the Rupert Murdoch ownedNorthern Territory...
May
04
2011
For this assignment, should you choose to accept it, look over this excellent list of ten habits of highly sexual people. Pick one thing on this list that you want to be better about, and focus on it for...
May
03
2011
This time we're joined by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset to have a fun conversation about the joys ethical non-monogamy. In fact, we were having so much fun that we didn't get to half the topics...
May
01
2011
Pursuant to an excellent suggestion from a listener (which has me kicking myself for not thinking of it), Ending the Sexual Dark Age now has a Fetlife group as a place for listeners to gather in a Facebook-style forum...
Apr
21
2011
Topics include bisexuality, online dating, introducing a vanilla husband to sexual dominance, re-stoking the sexual fires of a relationship and dealing with potential new playmates who expect a full blown Dominatrix as soon as a woman mentions kink.
Show Links:
Kink-positive...
Apr
12
2011
It is with no small amount of annoyance with myself that I do this, but I've got to take the show back to bi-weekly, at least for a while. If you all remember 'way back when' my intention...
Apr
06
2011
Some of the basic concepts and philosophies of group sex as well as some of the pitfalls of threesomes and couples playing together, including how bi-curiosity can come into play and how you can encourage a curious playmate without...
Apr
04
2011
Somehow an aggravating bit of malware made it past my firewall and antivirus program, so it looks like I'll be spending the evening dealing with this disaster instead of recording this week's episode.
I haven't given up yet, but it...
Mar
22
2011
An in-depth interview with a career military man, who gives us a behind-the-scenes look at the modern soldier's real attitudes towards serving with gays and lesbians; as well as sharing the straight story on the Pentagon's new policy to...
Mar
15
2011
A story about a little old lady chasing a public masturbator with a giant dildo, a woman contemplating celibacy due to sexual disappointments, clitoral numbness from frequent use of vibrators, and a guy looking for a middle ground on...
Mar
07
2011
A discussion of homophobia, social issues and myths surrounding homosexuality and bisexuality, in preparation for some fun topics like swinging, group sex and poly.
Show Links:
Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-024-HomophoBiSexuality.mp3
Feb
21
2011
A horny mom seeks help sorting through her recently discovered sex overdrive, advice for women looking to help keep their guys from needlessly obsessing about the size of their tools and a Dom looking for help unlocking the kinky...
Feb
14
2011
From Metro.co.uk: The 25-year-old has now ballooned in weight to 223kg (35st) after eating enough ice-cream, cakes and pizzas to reach the height of sexual pleasure.
She suffers from a medical condition called persistent genital arousal syndrome, where orgasms are...
Feb
14
2011
Tips on sex in public and in private that does NOT involve a bed or a bedroom, including sex in and on cars, in the water and whatever horizontal surfaces you might have in your home.
Show Links:
Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-022-Sex-On-Location.mp3
Feb
13
2011
Your homework for episode 22, should you choose to accept it, is to fuck your playmate somewhere other than a bedroom. Bonus points for trying somewhere neither of you has done it before. Play within your own...
Feb
10
2011
From the Huffington Post:
Sexting: Schools, Legislators Debate Punishments For Offenders: The popularity of sexting has sent parents, school officials and legislators scrambling to figure out how to address the issue.
...The New York Department of Education has also moved...
Feb
07
2011
Ending the Sexual Dark Age is now available for your Android Phone!
With this app you are always connected to the latest episodes and the show. You can also star your favorite episodes and save them to a list...
Feb
06
2011
Celebrating the first six months of the show, JV and Shara look back on some highlights and favorite moments and talk about topics including keeping a sex journal, women who frown on masturbation and polyamorous complications. A new section...
Feb
06
2011
From the Medical Adviser:
As always the disclaimer - this is general advice provided by a knowledgeable professional derived from accredited resources for your personal consideration. If you have questions on specific health concerns seek a qualified...
Feb
02
2011
Sugar & Spice, A Collection of Kinky Girl-On-Girl Stories, Edited by Mira Paul, has been officially released by Ravenous Romance. As I mentioned on episode 20, it was great working with RR on this anthology (which includes a...
Feb
02
2011
SAN FRANCISCO, Jan. 31, 2011 /PRNewswire/ -- As Americans prepare for the most-watched football game of the year, Zoosk.com, the world's largest social dating community, surveyed over 1,000 singles to gather their thoughts on the game, teams, and players....
Jan
30
2011
A sensual tale of erotic fantasy introducing the World of Aeodar, a publication announcement for J.V.'s short story "Breakfast at Jackie's" in Mira Paul's Sugar & Spice (Ravenous Romance), and a bit of inspirational heavy metal from J.V.'s archives.
Show...
Jan
30
2011
The book is coming this week sometime, but for now I can share the cover art :)
Links to the book coming ASAP
Jan
24
2011
A wrap up on the most basic concepts of BDSM including group play, fetish clubs, negotiating scenes and the meaning of the word "fetish," as well as a couple kink related listener mail items.
Show Links:
Fetlife.com
J.V. on Fetlife
Shara on Fetlife
Direct...
Jan
17
2011
Topics include why guys like blowing loads all over women, laser hair removal for balls and pussies, how to spot and avoid using unsafe sex toys that can leech chemicals and cause problems, being constantly accused of cheating when...
Jan
09
2011
A beginner's guide to understanding BDSM. This jumbo sized episode covers the definitions of: the acronym "BDSM", Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism & Masochism as well as Sadomasochism. We also talk about soft limits, hard limits, the...
Jan
09
2011
For BDSM Basics Part 1, your homework, should you choose to accept the challenge, is to check out some BDSM porn online and see if anything you watch lights your fire. I won’t ask you to do anything...
Dec
26
2010
Topics include health concerns regarding ass-to-mouth and ass-to-pussy musical holes, the difficulties some women have shaving their pussies, a method to shave balls used in hospitals for surgery-prep, and making music part of your sex play.
Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-016-Listener-Mail-Vol-5.mp3
Dec
26
2010
Your assignment for episode 16, if you choose to accept it, is to pick something out of your music collection that you'd like to lick, suck or fuck to and proceed to make it part of at least one...
Dec
19
2010
Something a bit different this time, as I read an original erotic short story for the audience.
Show Links:
Read "Timing Is Everything" on TwistedErotica.com
Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-015-Twisted-Erotica-Timing-Is-Everything.mp3
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Dec
12
2010
It seems my vocal cords have decided to stage an insurrection, so I apologize for not being able to put out a full episode this weekend. I hope to get back to regularly scheduled programming in a few days...
Dec
06
2010
Topics include taking virginity, managing two submissives in a threesome, Prince Alberts and whether piercings in general improve sexual stimulation.
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Dec
05
2010
Since some listeners have had trouble figuring out where they should post their comments or questions, this site now has a "bathroom wall" on which you're all free to scribble anything you like.
All comments will be moderated as usual,...
Nov
29
2010
The art of eating at the Y is examined from several angles with a bunch of, tricks and ideas for newbies and connoisseurs. Included are the anatomy of a pussy (where you find the clit and how to make...
Nov
29
2010
This glyph commemorates the (all too) few, the proud, the champion pussy lickers.
Nov
29
2010
Guys, your homework this time around, should you have a stunt pussy to practice on, is to give your girl some random head. Out of the blue, just sit her down, spread her legs and have at it....
Nov
21
2010
Specific tips on making your own Dupli-Cock, a bi female submissive asks for advice on head space in threesomes with another girl, a sex game you might never have thought of, thoughts on age inappropriate/lolita relationships and some tips...
Nov
15
2010
A thorough explanation of why guys love getting head so much, why no one has an excuse not to go down, and lots of tips on how to be a better cocksucker. Includes The myth that it's demeaning to...
Nov
15
2010
Girls, your homework for Episode 10, should you have a stunt cock available, is to give your man a surprise blowjob, expecting and allowing nothing to be done to you in return. Extra credit is available if you...
Nov
15
2010
Episode 10 allows me to share my favorite pornoglyph so far; the symbol for FellatiArtistry, also known as championship level cock sucking.
Nov
14
2010
Jeff on facebook was kind enough to whip up this road sign for Shara. I currently have her tied to a chair to keep her from searching the world trying to find it. I decided to create...
Nov
14
2010
By a narrow margin Version 1 triumphed with an extra vote, so I present to you the Sex Toys Pornoglyph.
Nov
07
2010
Episode 9 | Advice Line: Curing Prostatitis, Masturbation Problems, Introducing Kink To Your Bedroom
Listener comments and questions covering another health benefit resulting from guys burping the worm on a regular basis, advice for a girl who can only climax with a man and can't get herself off, a guy coping with a...
Oct
31
2010
The history and variety of sex toys for both men and women is examined, along with methods for bringing toys into your playtime if you haven't in the past.
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Oct
31
2010
I came up with these two designs for the "Sex Toys" Pornoglyph, but neither Shara or I can decide which one is cooler; so I'm asking for your help. I don't want to get into a poll, just...
Oct
31
2010
Your assignment for episode 8, should you have a stunt pussy, is to get that pussy a new toy.
Girls, since you can never have enough sex toys, buy yourself a new one. If you haven't used toys before with...
Oct
17
2010
This time around I go through all the ins, outs, ups and downs of masturbation for both guys and girls, including highlights of the many physical and psychological benefits of regularly scheduled orgasms either with a playmate or flying...
Oct
17
2010
Episode 7 is all about workin' it on your own, so that makes this the perfect pornoglyph to release along with it.gold toe socks over the calf
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17
2010
That's right boys and girls, your homework assignment for Episode 7 is to make sure you get off at least once a day for the next two weeks, either with help from a friend or by taking things into...
Oct
07
2010
A quickie bonus episode covering listener mail and comments, upcoming topics on the show, and a bit of advice for a particularly shy listener who wants to learn how to get up the guts to have honest conversations about...
Oct
04
2010
This episode examines shame as it pollutes modern sexuality, primarily in relation to the efforts of the Religion Industrial Complex. Fair warning, this is an extremely critical look at the institution of religion that some listeners have described as...
Oct
04
2010
In honor of how we've all been bent over by society for so long regarding our sexuality, I thought the pornoglyph for "Doggie Style" was especially appropriate for episode 5. I explain a little background on this one...
Sep
19
2010
Episode 4 covers various ins and outs of male stamina, starting with dispelling myths and understanding realistic expectations; then moving on to methods that can be used by both men and women to improve performance and longevity.
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Sep
19
2010
Primarily for the guys this time; your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to experiment with improving your stamina by trying one or two of the methods described in Episode 4. Of course, if you don't...
Sep
18
2010
In Episode 4 I introduced the first PornoGlyph, which is now the logo of Ending The Sexual Dark age. I'll be talking more about these symbols as time goes on, but the short version is that they're a way...
Sep
18
2010
I'm now all hooked up on a couple of the most popular social networking sites. Now that I can see the show starting to build a strong following, I'd like to let listeners connect with me a little...
Sep
06
2010
This episode covers a range of topics closely tied to the female orgasm; starting with why fake orgasms are the worst idea anyone has ever had...EVER...and continuing through the communication issues that lead to faking in the first place...
Sep
06
2010
As described in Episode 3, your assignment, should you choose to accept it, is to experiment with orgasm denial as a method of intensifying the female orgasm.
Girls, even if you do this assignment with your man, make sure you...
Aug
22
2010
A lot of men and women spend a lot of time obsessing about the size of certain key parts of their anatomies. This episode debunks a lot of common misconceptions about how much size matters in sex and sexual...
Aug
07
2010
Welcome to the inaugural episode of Ending the Sexual Dark Age, a lighthearted yet serious podcast dedicated to the unvarnished truth about sex in the modern world. We're educated from an early age about everything we'll need to know...
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